Olamide Agemo, Author at Lami's Memoirs

Better Beta, Better Writer: Why Every Wordsmith Needs A Beta Reader

The tingly feeling that hits when you finally type ‘the end’ on the piece you’ve been writing for months or even years is exhilarating. You stretch daintily on your couch as you think of all the people who would come to read your book and you smile.

But what if I told you that writing ‘the end’ is only the beginning? That’s right. Finishing your book is the first phase, and the journey that follows is a different adventure.

After my editor worked her magic on the fourth draft of my memoir, The Girl in The Mirror: How 2020 Became the Year of My Grand Shift, I knew it was time to give it to my beta readers to assess. It was the scariest thing I’d ever done, yet it was the most necessary step.

I needed to know what they thought about my story. Would they like it? Would it resonate with them? Did I bare too much of myself or not enough? Would they think it was just another mundane memoir?

I had poured my heart and soul into it. It was a story about my struggles with identity, self-love, and self-discovery. I’d always felt like I was living someone else’s life, a stranger in my own body, and I wanted to share my journey with others who might be going through the same thing.

My beta readers were carefully selected—people I knew would be honest with me, people who would give me constructive feedback, and not sugarcoat their opinions. They were my ‘guinea pigs, my trial run, my first set of critics.

The feedback started trickling in, and I was pleasantly surprised. They loved it! My story resonated with them, and in so many words, they appreciated the honesty and vulnerability that went into it.

They pointed out a few areas that needed improvement, and I took note of their suggestions. In time, I produced a masterpiece that not only resonated with new readers, but was also therapeutic in the same breath.

The journey of writing a book is not a singular one. It takes a village. And writing is never just about telling a story but about connecting with your audience, pulling them in, making them feel something. With the help of beta readers, you can be well on your way to the success you know you deserve.

Beta readers are the first readers who read your book and offer you feedback. They are the sounding board—a litmus test to know how your audience would receive your book when it eventually hits press.

Here are seven things that beta readers do to help authors perfect their work.

1. Offer a fresh perspective: Beta readers provide authors with an objective view of their work, allowing them to identify areas of improvement.

2. Check for plot holes: Great beta readers detect inconsistencies in the story and highlight any plot holes observed.

3. Test the pacing: Beta readers can test the pacing of the story to ensure that it flows smoothly and isn’t too slow or fast-paced.

4. Critique character development: Beta readers can give feedback on character development and whether the characters are relatable and well-developed.

5. Give feedback on the ending: Beta readers often provide commentaries on the ending and whether it is satisfying and fitting for the story.

6. Offer suggestions: Some beta readers offer suggestions on how to improve the writing, such as suggestions on language, sentence structure, and dialogue.

7. Identify target audience appeal: Since your beta readers are your proposed target audience, they can help make the manuscript more appealing to that demographic.

As a book lover and avid reader, I’d always been interested in the publishing process. But it wasn’t until a friend of mine asked me to beta read their book back in ’19 that I truly understood the importance of beta readers.

I was given a manuscript and asked to read within a short period. Diving in, I took copious notes with every page turned. When I finished, I sat down with my friend and gave them honest feedback on what I thought worked and what needed improvement—purely from a reader’s point of view.

Seeing how much my feedback meant to my friend, and how it helped shape their book into a better version of itself, made me realize just how necessary beta readers are.

I know that not everyone has a friend who can give honest and constructive feedback, and that’s where I come in. As an experienced beta reader, I’m committed to helping you reach your book goals.

I pride myself on providing quick and honest feedback to authors, without sacrificing the quality of my critique. I understand the importance of timely feedback, and love to provide it while still giving thoughtful and helpful insights.

It can be scary to share your work with others, but a great beta reader will however offer constructive suggestions without putting your work down, as it transcends into a masterpiece that is valuable to you and your reader.

Having a prepared list of questions for your beta reader is also helpful, so that you can achieve your desired goals for your book.

Are you an author looking for someone to give your manuscript a fresh set of eyes? I’m here to help. Let’s work together to make your book the best it can be.

With a better beta, your book can be so much better.

Pitching For The Stars: How A Great Pitch Deck Can Put You in the Top 1%

Lights, camera, pitch!

If you’re a screenwriter, director, or producer in the film industry, you know how essential pitching is to your success. It’s that make-or-break moment where you get to sell your creative vision and convince investors, producers, and other industry players your project is worth investing in.

Pitching is no joke, and it involves a lot more than just telling a compelling story. You need to demonstrate that you understand the market, know your target audience, and have a solid plan for generating revenue. After all, pitching isn’t just about the creative aspects of the project – it’s also about the bottom line.

That’s why a great pitch can make all the difference. It’s your chance to show off your talent, showcase your expertise, and create a buzz around your project. A compelling pitch can generate excitement and get investors eager to back your vision.

But pitching isn’t just about getting funding. It’s also a way to establish your credibility and build your reputation in the industry. It shows that you’re a pro who knows how to get things done and that you have what it takes to make a successful film.

So, if you want to get your project off the ground and into the spotlight, you’d better bring your A-game to the pitch!

Well, let’s talk about the key elements that make up a successful pitch deck!

First and foremost, you need a strong logline that hooks your audience from the start. It should be a concise and catchy statement that summarizes your story in just one or two sentences. Think of it as a teaser that gets your audience excited about your project.

Next up, you’ll need a compelling story synopsis that gives a more detailed overview of your plot. This is where you can showcase your unique storytelling and explain how your characters navigate the challenges they face. Be sure to highlight what sets your story apart and why it will resonate with audiences.

Speaking of characters, you’ll also need to include character descriptions in your pitch deck. This is where you can bring your characters to life and show your audience why they’ll care about them. Be sure to include their backstory, motivations, and any defining traits that make them stand out.

Finally, don’t forget to include visuals in your pitch deck that make your project come alive. Whether it’s concept art, storyboards, or stills from previous projects, visuals can help your audience ‘see’ your story and get a sense of your creative vision.

So, what does a successful pitch deck look like? Let’s take a look at some examples that have helped other filmmakers and screenwriters get their projects off the ground.

The Babadook: This pitch deck for the horror film “The Babadook” includes a strong logline, a detailed story synopsis, and creepy visuals that set the tone for the film.

Adventure Time: This pitch deck includes a deep dive into the characters and what drives them, as well as a vivid description of their universe.

Don’t go: Starts with reviews and commentaries and then goes on to a detailed story synopsis accentuated by stills. It also includes an excerpt of a scene from the screenplay and the reader is immediately transported there.

What are some common pitching mistakes you should avoid? Let’s take a look.

First up, being too vague or unfocused in your pitch can quickly turn off your audience. You need to clearly communicate your story, your vision, and your target audience to get people on board. Don’t make your audience guess what your project is all about – be specific and focused.

Another mistake is failing to capture your audience’s attention quickly enough. You only have a few minutes to make a strong impression, so make sure your opening grabs their attention and leaves them wanting more. Think of it as a trailer for your project – it should be exciting and memorable. You should avoid typos and gaffes of any kind.

Lastly, not demonstrating a clear understanding of your audience’s needs and interests can also hurt your chances. Investors want to know that you understand the market and have a solid plan for generating revenue. You need to show them why your project is unique and why it will resonate with them.

So, how can you avoid these pitching mistakes? Practice, practice, practice! Rehearse your pitch until it’s polished and precise. Get feedback from trusted friends and colleagues, and adjust as needed. And most importantly, be passionate and confident about your project – that’s what will ultimately win people over.

Are you a filmmaker or screenwriter looking to pitch your project to investors, but struggling to create a compelling pitch deck? Look no further! I offer pitch deck creation services that can help you craft a winning pitch that gets results.

As a pitch deck creator, I understand the importance of clear and concise copy, captivating visuals, and a professional layout. I work with you to ensure that all elements of the pitch deck complement one another and effectively communicate your unique vision.

One of my strengths is my ability to fine-tune the pitch deck until I see it from the perspective of the potential reader. This allows me to identify any areas that may be unclear or need improvement, and make the necessary adjustments to create a polished and effective pitch.

With my services, you can rest assured that your pitch deck will be professional-looking, compelling, and tailored to your specific needs.

Don’t let a lackluster pitch deck hold you back from achieving your creative vision. Get in touch today to learn more about how I can help you create a winning pitch!

See some of my samples.

10 Themes to Absolutely Explore in Your Next Memoir

A memoir is a form of writing that tells a personal story, usually focusing on a specific period or experience in the author’s life. Unlike autobiographies which spotlight a person’s life story from birth till a particular point in history, memoirs are more time and event bound.

Through vivid descriptions, personal anecdotes, and heartfelt reflections, with memoirs, the author invites the reader along on their journey of self-discovery, allowing a glimpse into their past, struggles, and a new understanding.

Memoir writing helps the author to share their unique perspective, thoughts, and emotions with readers while creating a sense of intimacy between the reader and author.

We all want to feel connected!

I read Will Smith’s ‘Will’ the other day, and was instantly drawn into the world he’d created and lived. Seeing through his eyes, as he painted his successes and failures, made me see how different, yet alike we all are at the end of the day. A delve into Michelle Obama’s memoir, Becoming, as she tells her story as well as her family’s pre and post White House experience was particularly inspiring, yet personal.

There is a certain power in personal storytelling that cannot be found anywhere else. Who doesn’t enjoy a good tale?

In my memoir, The Girl in the Mirror: How 2020 Became the Year of My Grand Shift, I wrote about the 2020 pandemic phenomenon, the events happening in society, like the Black Lives Matter protests in the USA, as well as the END SARS protests in Nigeria. Pulling from these incidents, I was able to draw a concrete connection between what was happening, and the events in my life.

A good memoir can be therapeutic as it often seeks to explore identity and shape cultural and social narratives. As such, it is important to maintain a great degree of accuracy and authenticity when writing one.

No one can tell your story as well as you can, as they would need to get into the same shoes as you—which may not be possible. If you would like to explore who you are, however, you definitely should consider writing a memoir. I can tell you for free that it changed my perspective on life.

Although writing a memoir can be uncomfortable, as you would need to meet different versions of yourself, it is helpful to face these emotions so you can own who you truly are and move on to who you’d like to be.

Memoirs often take different forms and can cover a vast range of topics, from personal tragedy and triumph to travel and adventure.

Here are 10 themes to explore in your next memoir.

Coming of age. One of the chapters in my memoir, ‘To My Sixteen-Year-Old Self’ captures this in brief. You could explore the experiences and challenges of growing up and finding your place in the world. 18 to 21-year-olds often have some stuff going on with them and it could be really helpful to share your experience, so they can successfully navigate theirs.

Family dynamics. Family can be complex and is often the source of who we become as adults—”good” or “bad.” You may want to examine the joys, conflicts, and complexities of relationships with family members, both biological and chosen. This can help you to find peace in some form, or even, acceptance.

Career Trajectory. Work is an essential part of our lives as humans. You can detail the ups and downs of a particular career path(s), including challenges you faced, successes, as well as personal growth. Sharing this in a memoir could help readers invested in that career path make informed choices.

Love and relationships. Oh yeah, we all love to love. Reflecting on romantic relationships and their impact on your personal growth and development is a guaranteed winner. You may decide to share what you’ve been through, and who you are now as a result of your relationship choices.

Travel and adventure. Are you a sucker for adventure? Do you like to travel the world and discover exotic places and people? A travel memoir may just be right for you. Sharing your tales of exploration and adventure, both close to home and around the world, can help your readers pick out their next fun place to go. Or not.

Personal tragedy. Maya Angelou’s I Know Why The Caged Bird Sings tells a tale of trauma, and racism as well as the path to finding her voice. Tragedy is a universal event and some experience it more than others. No manual to it—just the way life works. Detailing the impact of a traumatic event, such as the loss of a loved one, can help in the process of healing and recovery.

Mental health. In 2020, I struggled with depression. I’d had it coming for some time, but the solitary confinement brought about by the pandemic only made it worse. Writing a memoir helped me explore personal struggles with mental health issues, including anxiety, depression, and addiction. At the end of the day, I was a whole new being—having undergone the self-therapy I didn’t know I needed. It could do the same for you too.

Identity. You could examine how your identity has been shaped and transformed, whether through race, gender, or other factors. If you don’t even know who you are, how can you be who you are supposed to be?

Politics and activism. Olusegun Obasanjo’s My Watch details in 3 sequences, his personal experiences in the public eye, the country he’s known and loved, as well as the politics thereof. You could write a memoir that curates political movements or social justice causes, and the impact of activism on your personal growth. We could definitely use more of those.

Spiritual or philosophical exploration. In the search for meaning, we often travel far and wide, in our minds and also to physical places. You could write a memoir that explores your purpose, spirituality, and the impact of personal beliefs on your life experiences.

Regardless of the specific focus, what makes a memoir truly fascinating is the author’s ability to craft a story that not only entertains but also enlightens and inspires.

When done right, a memoir can be a deeply moving and transformative experience for both the author and the reader.

Ready to get started on your memoir?

The Write Way: The Ultimate Guide for Self-Help Authors

I’d just arrived at a paint-and-sip event when I saw her. I’ll call her Jay. Her beauty and authenticity radiated so much that the whole room seemed to float around her.

Later that evening, as we oohed and ahhed over the ship the art instructor just taught us to paint, we struck an easy conversation.

Jay was a mobile nurse who often traveled around the world. She’d seen diverse cultures and exotic places and had explored tropical dishes. She quietly expressed a desire to share not just with her travel vlog, but to one day write an ebook detailing her experiences, highlighting cities worth going to or not.

With a grin, I pulled out my business card and introduced myself as a ghostwriter. I explained that I could help put her stories together in the form of a self-help book and attain her author goals.

As the evening went on, she fell more in love with the idea. She admitted that she was not much of a writer and that now was as good a time as any to begin. The night ended with a high note and we promised to keep in touch.

Over the next couple of weeks, I listened carefully as she shared her ideas and stories with me, while taking copious notes. I then went through hours of her vlog as I tried to put a finger on her voice and unique style.

As I began to work on the book, however, I soon realized that there was a slight hitch. Jay’s original theme and message were not as clear and cohesive as she had initially thought, and I could tell that the book needed a more focused direction.

Naturally, I broached the subject with her, but she was resistant to the idea of altering her original plan. Despite the tension, I knew that it was important to continue the conversation and work through the issues.

I took the time to carefully explain the potential benefits of refocusing the book, infusing her life as a nurse. Nursing was her first love, and it had impacted the way she experienced her trips. Gradually, Jay began to see my point of view.

As we worked together to fine-tune the theme and direction of the book, there were moments of frustration and even tears as she struggled to let go of her original vision.

In the end, however, the book turned out to be a powerful and impactful piece of work that truly reflected her unique insights and experiences. She was grateful for my dedication and expertise and noted that without my help, her travel book may not have been possible.

Self-help books are like cheat codes for life. They’re books that give you advice on how to improve yourself, whether it’s in your personal life, your career, your relationships, or your health. Or just like Jay’s book, they can show you ‘how to’ adapt when you find yourself in odd places, just like Jonah in the whale’s belly. Hehe.

Self-help books are basically like having that wise and experienced friend who can give you a kick in the butt when you need it.

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But here’s the thing: not all self-help books are created equal. Some are actually helpful, while others are about as useful as a chocolate teapot.

Now, if you’re thinking of writing a self-help book, here are some best practices to keep in mind:

First, structure is key. You want to make sure your book has a clear and logical flow so that readers can easily follow your advice and apply it to their lives. This may mean breaking your book down into chapters and sections, and using headings and subheadings to make it easy to navigate.

Second, you need to have a clear message. What’s the crux of your argument? Why does it matter? If you can’t answer these questions, then your book is going to be about as focused as a toddler on a sugar high.

But don’t stop there! Once you’ve figured out your message, you need to make sure you’re engaging your reader. After all, if your book is as dry as a slice of toast, no one’s going to want to read it. So, you’ll need to infuse anecdotes, humor, and personal stories to connect with your readers and keep them invested.

Finally, remember that self-help books are ultimately about helping people. So, you should make sure your advice is practical, actionable, and based on real-world experience. Don’t just spout platitudes or give generic advice that anyone could come up with. Give your readers something they can actually use to improve their lives.

And just like Jay, you can decide to write your book with me.

Now, you might be thinking, “Why should I choose you over anyone else?” Well, my friend, I’m not just any ghostwriter.

As an experienced ghostwriter, I understand that each client is unique and comes with their own set of expectations and communication styles. And so, I meander through any challenges, as we work together to create a book that perfectly meets your goals.

My process

First, I’ll have an initial consultation with you to determine your goals, vision, and voice for the book.

Next, I’ll draw up a contract to establish clear communication channels, timelines, and expectations for both parties, including payment and pricing structure.

Because the reader is an important part of the process, I’ll research the topic and audience thoroughly to understand their needs and interests. Then with you, I’ll establish a clear structure and outline for the book, including chapter titles, key themes, and messaging.

We’ll have regular interviews to get a deeper understanding of your experience and insights, and why it matters in a particular scene or chapter.

A first draft of the manuscript will then be written, alongside regular updates and opportunities for feedback throughout the writing process to ensure you are satisfied with the direction and tone of the book.

Now, you may have reservations, comments, or suggestions about the manuscript. That’s okay, after all, it’s your book. Together, we’ll work on improving the flow, organization, additional information, and overall impact as it would matter to your reader.

After this, the manuscript would be sent to the beta readers, to critique and assess whether the book adequately passes the intended message. When their feedback comes through, necessary adjustments will be made and it would then be sent to an editor to work on.

Lastly, I will proofread carefully for grammar, spelling, and formatting errors before putting together the final draft.

Of course, you don’t want to author a book that’s just lying there with no one to read, so we’ll discuss from the beginning, the publishing platform that works for you. Whether you want to self-publish or go through the traditional publishing route, we’ll work towards your goals and budget.

Throughout the publishing and promotion process, I’ll offer some support and guidance. We could also discuss a marketing plan that leverages social media, email marketing, book reviews, and other promotional tools to reach your target audience. This would usually be add-ons.

Authoring a self-help book is a great experience to have, as you get to share your knowledge with others and make a difference in their lives.

Ready to hit the write way? Get in touch.

Bringing Your Memoir to Life: The Ghostwriting Process

Ghostwriting is the process of writing a book, speech, article, or any other piece of content on behalf of someone else, without taking any credit for it.

Now, when it comes to memoirs, ghostwriting takes on a particularly interesting role. A memoir is a first-person account of someone’s life experiences, often told in a narrative form. It’s a deeply personal and intimate genre that requires the author to share their most vulnerable moments, their triumphs, and their struggles. But not everyone who wants to write a memoir has the time, skills, or inclination to do so. This is the ghostwriter’s turf.

A memoir ghostwriter works closely with the author to capture their voice, perspective, and story. The ghostwriter will conduct extensive interviews with the author to understand their life experiences, their motivations, and their unique perspective. From there, the ghostwriter will take the raw material and craft it into a compelling narrative that adequately captures the essence of the author’s life.

One of the most important things a memoir ghostwriter must do is maintain the author’s voice. The goal is not to create a sanitized, sanitized version of the author’s life, but rather to accentuate their personality. A skilled ghostwriter will be able to navigate the author’s idiosyncrasies and quirks, their unique way of speaking and thinking, and use these elements to create a rich and authentic narrative.

Of course, ghostwriting isn’t without its controversies. Some people believe that a memoir should only be written by the person who lived it, and that ghostwriting is a form of deception. Others argue that ghostwriting is a legitimate way for people to tell their stories, particularly if they lack the time or skills to write a book themselves.

Here are some reasons you should hire a memoir ghostwriter.

First and foremost, let’s talk about time. Writing a memoir is a BIG project. It takes a lot of time and energy to sit and put all your memories and experiences into words. And let’s be real, most of us have busy lives with jobs, families, and all sorts of other obligations that can make it tough to find the time to write a book. That’s where a ghostwriter comes in – we can take on the heavy lifting and let you focus on living your life.

But it’s not just about time, there’s also the matter of skill. Writing is a craft, and not everyone is comfortable with it. Maybe you’re an incredible storyteller, but when it comes to putting those stories on paper, you freeze up.

Or perhaps you’re a fantastic writer, but the idea of writing about your own life feels too personal or overwhelming. That’s where a ghostwriter can really shine. We have the skills and experience to take your story and turn it into a book that you can be proud of.

And let’s not forget about perspective. Sometimes when you’re too close to a story, it can be hard to see the forest for the trees. A ghostwriter can bring a fresh perspective to your story, helping you to see things in a new light and find the themes and threads that tie everything together. Plus, we’re not emotionally invested in your story in the same way that you are, which means we can approach it with a bit more objectivity.

Of course, hiring a ghostwriter isn’t for everyone. Some people enjoy the process of writing and want to do it all themselves. And that’s great! But if you’re someone who feels like they could use a little help, a ghostwriter can be an invaluable resource. We help tell your story in a way that’s compelling, authentic, and true to who you are.

My Process

When you hire me, you’re not just getting a writer – you’re getting a soul therapist too. I’ll lovingly guide you through the process of reaching into the stories you really need to tell. Even if you falter, I’ll be there with you every step of the way.

Now, when it comes to actually writing the book, the process can vary from person to person. For some folks, I’ll start with a series of interviews to get a sense of their stories and voices. We’ll chat about life experiences, values, and the themes that you want to explore in your memoir. From there, I’ll use those conversations to start crafting the narrative of your book.

For others, we might start with a rough draft or a series of notes, videos, blog posts, etc, that you’ve already put together. I’ll take that material and use it as a jumping-off point to start building your story. We’ll work together to flesh out your ideas and find the throughline that ties everything together.

Once we’ve got a solid draft in place, we’ll go through a series of revisions to make sure that everything is just right. You’ll have plenty of opportunities to give feedback and make changes along the way. My goal is always to make sure that the final product is a reflection of your voice, your story, and your unique perspective.

Hey.

Life is full of amazing experiences, both good and bad. And if you’re anything like me, you’ve probably had your fair share of them. Writing a memoir is like bottling up those experiences and sharing them with the world.

Think about it: when you’re old and grey and sitting in your rocking chair, wouldn’t it be nice to have a book full of your memories to look back on? Plus, you never know who your story might inspire or help. Maybe your struggles and triumphs will give someone else the strength to persevere through their challenges.

I know what you’re probably thinking – “I’m not a famous celebrity, why would anyone want to read my memoir?” Here’s the thing – your story is unique and valuable simply because it’s yours. Everyone has a story to tell, and yours is just as worthy of being heard as anyone else’s.

There’s something quite cathartic about chronicling one’s life story in a memoir. It allows you to reflect, make sense of your experiences, and maybe even find closure on certain events.

So, if you’re still on the fence about writing a memoir, I say go for it! Your story deserves to be shared, and who knows, it might even change someone’s life. Plus, it’ll give you something to do in your retirement besides yelling at the grandkids to get off your lawn.

Ready to share your unique story with the world?

Write with me.

The Secret to Success? Letting Someone Else Write Your Business Book

Well, well, well, it seems like you’ve stumbled upon the ghostwriting topic. Don’t be scared, though. Ghostwriting is not about spooky apparitions. It’s simply about making your life a little less haunted (winks).

Imagine you are a busy business owner, juggling endless tasks, meetings, and responsibilities. You have a brilliant idea for a book, but who has time to sit down and write it? This is where a skilled ghostwriter steps in!

A ghostwriter is like a literary ninja who can take your thoughts and ideas and transform them into a polished, well-written book that you can call your own.

Ghostwriting is particularly helpful for business owners who want to write a book but don’t have the time or expertise to do it themselves. Just like hiring a personal trainer to help you achieve your fitness goals, the ghostwriter is your writing coach, guiding you through the process as you achieve your literary dreams.

But why bother with a book in the first place?

Well, my friend, a book is a powerful tool for establishing credibility, building a personal brand, and generating leads. It’s like a business card on steroids.

A well-written book can position you as an expert in your field, as people are more likely to trust and do business with folks who can show they really know what they’re doing.

Plus, in today’s digital age, authoring a book gives you a competitive edge. It can be used as a marketing tool, shared on social media, and used to create valuable content for your website or blog. Not to mention, it’s a great way to leave a legacy and share your knowledge with the world.

And with a ghostwriter, you can achieve your author goals without sacrificing all your time and sanity.

My Ghostwriting Process

First, we start with a little tango called “getting to know you.” I’ll ask you questions about your business, your brand, your goals, your dreams, your fears, your favorite pizza topping… you get the picture. The more I know about you, the better I can capture your voice and vision for your book.

Next up, we have the waltz of outlining. Together, we’ll map out the structure of the book, chapter by chapter. This is where we figure out the main themes, the key points, and the overall arc to be explored in your book. It’s like building a roadmap to success, with me as your trusty navigator.

Now comes the fun part: the rumba of writing. This is where I put pen to paper (or fingers to keyboard) and start crafting the words that will make your book shine. But not to worry, I won’t go rogue and write a book that sounds nothing like you. I’m like a chameleon, adapting my writing style to match yours, so the final product truly feels like it came straight from your own brilliant mind.

But we’re not done yet!

The ghostwriting process is all about collaboration, so we’ll have plenty of opportunities to tango back and forth, getting your feedback and making revisions along the way. This is where you put your stamp on the book and make sure everything is exactly where you want it to be.

Finally, we end with a triumphant flourish, the cha-cha of finishing touches. We’ll polish the manuscript until it sparkles, ensuring that every word is in its proper place and every comma perfectly placed. And just like that, we’ll have a beautiful, well-written book that showcases your expertise and your unique voice.

Why you should work with me.

With over three years of experience ghostwriting, I’ve developed the knack for writing books that are not only informative but also compelling. I capture your reader’s attention and keep them engaged from cover to cover.

If you want a book that will have your readers turning pages faster than they can say “profit margins,” I’m your girl!

But that’s not all.

I’m not just a writer, I’m a strategy consultant and chartered accountant. I understand the art and science of business and persuasion. And I present ideas in a way that’s not only convincing but also practical and delivers great results.

Let’s be honest…

It’s natural to feel hesitant about hiring a ghostwriter. You’ve worked hard to build your brand and your message, and you don’t want to lose control over it any more than you want to lose control over your morning coffee. And if we’re keeping it a buck, hiring a ghostwriter can be expensive, like trying to buy a yacht on a shoestring budget.

But here’s the thing: as a skilled ghostwriter, I understand those concerns. I know that your message is your baby, and I’ll treat it with the care and respect it deserves.

My goal is to work with you to ensure that your message shines through every word of the book we create together. And as for the cost, I’m not here to break your bank. Together, we’ll find a solution that fits your budget and meets your needs.

Now…

When it comes to ghostwriting, some business owners worry that their ideas might be leaked, their brand might be compromised, or worse, their competitors might steal their thunder.

But rest assured, the ghostwriting process is as confidential as a CIA operation. Your ideas are safe with me, and I’ll work tirelessly to ensure that your brand and message are not only preserved but elevated.

Authoring a book is one of the best ways to build credibility and establish your brand. A well-written book can position you as an expert in your field, expand your reach, and help you connect with your target audience in a meaningful way.

And who doesn’t want that, right?

I offer a free 15 minute discovery call where we can discuss the theme of your book and how it may benefit your brand. There’s no obligation, no pressure, just a friendly conversation between two people who are passionate about making a difference.

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Mastering the Art of Public Speaking: Key Elements for a Powerful and Effective Speech

Have you ever given a speech before? It’s a pretty intense and humbling experience.

As I stand at the podium, the eyes of the audience fixed on me, I feel a rush of adrenaline.

I know that this is my chance to share my ideas, experiences, and perspectives with others and I seize it!

As I begin to speak, the energy in the room shifts. People are listening to me… really listening, and I shudder with excitement.

I see heads nodding in agreement, interest, and realization, and I know that I’m making an impact.

But speeches aren’t just about sharing your own ideas. They can also be a powerful tool for inspiring and motivating others. And then there are those speeches that are all about educating and informing.

As an educator, writer, strategist and therapist, I’ve had the opportunity to give many speeches over the years. There’s always something incredibly rewarding about sharing my knowledge and expertise with others.

It’s a chance to help people learn and grow, and believe me when I say, I can’t quite get enough of it, because I always learn something too!

Speeches are formal or informal talks given to an audience on a particular topic. They can be delivered by individuals, such as politicians, educators, or business leaders, or by groups, such as panel discussions or debates.

Here are some key elements that make up a good speech.

Clear structure: A good speech has a clear beginning, middle, and end, with each section flowing smoothly into the next. You want your ideas to flow logically.
Compelling opening: The opening of a good speech grabs the audience’s attention and sets the tone for the rest of the speech. This could be a powerful quote, a personal anecdote, or a surprising statistic. You don’t want to present a speech that turns your audience off in the first minute or two.
Memorable message: A good speech communicates a clear message that is easy to remember and understand. You should use language that is simple and concise, and avoid using jargon or complex technical terms—except when it is absolutely necessary to.
Emotional appeal: A good speech appeals to the audience’s emotions by using stories, humor, or other rhetorical devices to engage the audience and make them feel invested in the topic. You want your audience to feel something as they listen to you.
Credibility: A good speech is delivered by a speaker who is seen as credible and trustworthy. This could be expressed through the speaker’s expertise, personal experience, or charisma. People generally love to listen to people who sound like they know what they’re saying.
Call to action: A good speech ends with a clear call that inspires the audience to take action or think differently about a particular subject. It could be a request for donations, a call to vote, or a simple invitation to continue the conversation. Maggie in our story, for instance, wanted donations to her cause.

Preparing to give a speech can often feel like a daunting task, but with proper preparation, it can be a rewarding and empowering experience for you. And with a speechwriter rooting for you, you cannot go wrong!

Here are some tips to help prepare you for your next speech.

Know your audience: The first step in preparing a speech is to know who you will be speaking to. This will help you tailor your message to their interests, needs, and level of expertise. You don’t want to speak with a 5th-grader vocabulary to professionals.
Define your purpose: Before you start writing your speech, you need to define your purpose. What do you want your audience to take away from your speech? What action do you want them to take? Without a well-defined purpose, you may as well be speaking into the void.
Research your topic: Gather as much information as you can about your topic. This will help you develop a clear understanding of the issue and enable you to present a well-informed and definitive speech.
Organize your thoughts: Once you have done your research, organize your thoughts into a clear and logical structure. Create an outline of your main points and supporting evidence. Learn, unlearn, and relearn.
Use stories and anecdotes: Stories and anecdotes can be a powerful way to engage your audience and make your message more memorable. The added touch of Maggie’s personal stories, as well as those of other sufferers, made it easier for her audience to connect with her message.
Practice, practice, practice: Once you have written your speech, practice delivering it several times. You could practice in front of a mirror or other people- visualizing your audience, using appropriate pauses and inflections. This will help you become more comfortable with the material and allow you to refine your delivery. Be confident.
Get feedback: Seek feedback from others on your speech. This could be from a trusted friend or colleague, or a professional speech coach.
Be prepared for questions: Anticipate questions your audience may have and prepare answers in advance. Of course, the occasional odd question may come through, but when you are prepared, it becomes easier to navigate.
Use visual aids: Visual aids such as slides, graphs, or charts can help to reinforce your message and make it more memorable. Most of the best speeches I’ve given were the ones I utilized visual aids. Even when I forget a line, the images jolt me to the present.

The key to a successful speech is preparation. By knowing your audience, defining your purpose, researching your topic, organizing your thoughts, practising your delivery, and being prepared for questions, you will be able to deliver a powerful and effective speech that resonates with your audience and moves them to action.

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From Inspiration to Composition: The Art of Songwriting

What is songwriting?

Songwriting is the art of using music and lyrics to create songs. It involves writing lyrics that convey a message or tell a compelling story and then composing a melody to accompany said lyrics. It could be done by an individual or a group of songwriters and in different genres, including pop, rock, country, hip-hop, soul, and others.

It is a creative process that requires a combination of technical skills, e.g, the knowledge of musical theory and song structure, and artistic skills; such as the ability to express emotions and ideas through words and music. Successful songwriting often involves regular collaboration between writers, producers, musicians, and in some cases, the audience, to create a product that resonates with listeners.

There is no one “right” way to write a song, as the process often varies depending on the individual songwriter and how they connect to their creative self.

Here are some general steps that could be helpful for you as a songwriter:

Start with an idea or inspiration. This could be based on a moment in time, a story, a feeling, a phrase, or a musical riff. Write down your initial thoughts and brainstorm ways to develop them into a full song.
Use a working song title. You could start with an idea of what you want the song title to be, and then build your lyrics and sound around it.
Choose a structure for your song. Common structures include verse-chorus-verse, A-B-A-B, and intro-verse-chorus-verse-bridge-chorus. Decide on the structure that works best for the message and mood of your song.
Write the lyrics. You could start with a hook or catchy phrase to grab the listener’s attention, and then build the rest of the lyrics around it. Infuse vivid imagery, allegories, metaphors, and sensory language in bringing the lyrics to life.
Compose the melody. Experiment with different chord progressions, rhythms, and melodies until you find a combination that fits the mood and message of your lyrics.
Arrange the song. Decide on the instrumentation and arrangement that will best showcase your song. This could involve adding drums, bass, guitar, piano, or other instruments, as well as vocal harmonies or other effects.
Practice and tweak. Once you have a draft of your song, practice performing it and listen to feedback from others. Revise and refine your song until you feel confident in the final product.
Demo or record the song. Record a demo of your song to share with others, or work with a producer to record a professional version of the song.
Work with the feedback you get. Bear in mind, not everyone will see the vision that you do, but take what works from the multitude of advice you get. It could be the bridge between you and your Grammy.

These are not hard and fast rules. All you have to do is to let your creativity and emotions guide you as you create a song that is uniquely yours.

Songwriters oftentimes try and fail to find inspiration to write new songs, and it’s not just you! Life happens.

Here are a few tips to help you fine-tune your songwriting process and improve your inspiration and composition skills.

Listen to a variety of music: Listening to different genres and styles of music can help you gain inspiration and broaden your creative horizons. You can analyze the song structures, chord progressions, and melodies of your favorite songs and see if you can incorporate some of those elements into your songwriting.
Keep a notebook or voice recorder handy: Inspiration could strike at any moment, as such, it’s important to capture your ideas when they come to you. Keep a notebook or voice recorder with you at all times so you can jot down lyric ideas, melodies, or chord progressions as they waft to you.
Practice often: As with any other skill, songwriting requires practice. Make out time to write every day, even if it’s just for a few moments. Set achievable goals for yourself, such as writing one new song per week or completing a verse and chorus each day. Decide what works for you.
Collaborate with other songwriters: There’s something cool about iron sharpening iron. Collaborating with other creatives can help you gain new perspectives and ideas. Working with someone else can also help you overcome writer’s block and get unstuck when you’re feeling low.
Regular commune with nature: Nature has the best gifts- from the sights to the sounds and smells, there’s a new song waiting to be born.
Experiment with different approaches: Don’t be afraid to try new approaches to songwriting. For example, you could start with a melody and build lyrics around it, or write lyrics first and then create a melody to match- your call. You could also try writing from a different perspective or style than you’re used to.
Seek feedback: It can be helpful to get feedback on your songs from other musicians, songwriters, or music tutors. They may be able to offer constructive criticism or suggestions for improvement.
Keep learning: Read books, take online courses, attend workshops, or work with a mentor to continue developing your skills. There is always something more to learn about the art of songwriting.

Songwriting for you could be about finding release or about making a statement, letting the world see who you really are. For another person, it could be an avenue to connect with themselves in a meaningful and intimate way. I for one I’m pretty partial to conscious music.

I once wrote a song after a particular blackout in my area. Disconnected from my e-devices, I reached into myself to find some meaning and found the words flowing seamlessly- a consciousness of who and why I was. It was an absolute masterpiece.

There are a thousand and one songs to be written about heartbreaks and love found, you could even write a song with no words like Beethoven.

Listen to the news, and see what’s happening outside, with people’s cultures, religions, and beliefs. Go to concerts. Social media is also a great source of inspiration. Reach into yourself and find those words.

You’ve got this!

From Taste-making to Opinion-shaping: The Importance of Music Reviews in Today’s World

What is a music review?

A music review is an evaluation of a piece of music or an entire EP/album written by a music critic, journalist, or reviewer. It typically includes an assessment of the musical composition, performance, production, and overall quality.

The review may provide some context for the music, discussing the artist’s previous work or the historical and cultural significance of the current work. Reviews are often found in a variety of media, including print publications, online publications, podcasts, and social media platforms.

A music review aims to inform the reader about the strengths and weaknesses of the music, as well as offer an opinion about its artistic merits.

Why do reviews even matter?

When a new genre or sound comes into town, music critics often help to start the conversation. With their opinions, they influence the stream-ability of a song and visibility generally. Reviews are particularly useful for artistes who are flying under the radar as well as already established acts. The more critics discuss your song, the more likely for new audiences to discover it.

Here are a few benefits of music reviews.

Music reviews provide valuable insights and critical analysis of the music, allowing listeners to gain a deeper understanding and appreciation.
They help guide listeners to new music, presenting them with the opportunity to discover new artists and genres they might not have otherwise found.
Music reviews can help listeners make informed decisions about purchasing music, as they offer an opinion on the overall quality of the album or individual tracks.
They provide a platform for new and emerging artists to gain exposure and recognition, as they reach a wider audience and expand their fan base.
Positive music reviews can have an impact on an artist’s commercial success and often leads to increased album sales and concert attendance.
Reviews contribute to the ongoing dialogue and discourse surrounding music, allowing for a deeper exploration of its cultural, historical, and social significance.
Music reviews provide a platform for diverse voices and perspectives, as critics come from a variety of backgrounds and thus, offer unique insights.
They serve as historical curators of music, documenting the evolution and trends of different genres over time.
Music reviews can help shape the overall perception and legacy of an artist, influencing how they are remembered and discussed in the years to come.
They foster a sense of community among music lovers, as they help provide a shared platform for discussion and debate about the kind of music we love.

About words

Words are marble. They have the power to make or mar, and music critics use this sparingly to influence the perception of the sound people pay attention to.

It is important to note that music critics are just one voice among many, and their opinions can be subjective. What one critic loves, another may hate, and what one critic sees as a flaw, another may see as a strength.

The ideal reviewer often attempts to strike a balance between subjectivity and objectivity, finding a way through their bias. Ultimately, the quality of the music itself and the appeal it has to listeners will determine its success.

My services

I offer music review services in different phases- before a song is released into the market to analyze the merits of a song, and post-release.

During a pre-release review I did for an artiste once, I noted that a particular tune could use a blend of female voices to make it work better. This insight may not have been possible if the song was already out in the market.

Sometimes, all you need is for someone to provide that extra ear so that any chords or progressions that need to be rearranged can be done before your song hits the streets. At other times, it may be that your lyrics need more work to perfectly pass the message you want to your listeners.

In whatever phase you decide to go for it, reviews are very helpful in the music ecosystem as they help to connect everyone involved to the magnificence of music. After all, music is really the language of the universe.

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1O Reasons Why We Should Tell Our Stories

Our lives are enriched by the stories we tell and hear. And just like the treacherous crumbs that led Hansel and his sister, Gretel, to the witch’s cottage in the fairy tale, stories highlight our path from the end to the beginning.

From the dawn of time, we have been taught many things, in our religion, culture, and beliefs. Those ideas are often transmitted in the form of stories and mostly turn out to be the values we live by.

Without proper storytelling, the past, present, and future will not converge. A connection between what is, what was, and what is to come will not exist.

As humans, we rely on stories to assign meaning to situations and that’s why psychologists often emphasize the importance of telling ourselves the stories that really matter.

If for instance, you believe a person hates you and is out to get you for some reason, it’s a story you’ve told yourself and come to accept. The outcome of your experience then depends on how events unfold or how you choose to interact with the said individual.

If you tell yourself a story of vigor and thriving, articulating how you plan to surmount life’s challenges, chances are there that you’d somehow get through.

Here are the reasons we have to tell our stories. Some would definitely resonate with you.

Stories help to preserve the past, reminding us of our humanity. Our memories aren’t that trustworthy—so it’s best is put them down, in writing or with other mediums. From the beginning of time, humans have told stories in different forms like hieroglyphics, symbols, war chants, tattoos, tribal marks, etc. Our stories help us distinctly identify who we are and what we stand for. It’s quite amazing how much you can learn about a group of people from the kinds of markings they have on their bodies and the stories they hold dear.

Stories show our growth or lack of it. Just like earlier stated, the stories we tell ourselves help us determine where we currently are in our life’s journey. A deadbeat father for instance, who decides to up and leave his wife and kids for some reason, is driven by a story he tells himself. If later down the line, he opts to reconcile with his family, it’s up to him and the story he chooses to believe.

Stories help us understand who we are, the road we’ve taken to where we are, and where we could be. Books, art pieces, movies, and other literary forms have been used for centuries to highlight the starting point of journeys. Take John Bunyan’s The Pilgrim’s Progress, for instance. It tells a compelling story of a man who literally goes through hell, trying to find himself. And it’s a hero’s journey that has continued to resonate with many from time till now.

They help us observe similarities between our lives and that of others. I have very often come across social media posts that highlight how similar we are as humans. Someone makes a TikTok about some weird ritual they do at home on family day and you get a thousand and one comments, saying, ‘this is so me.’ Stories help us see how though different we are, under a particular circumstance, we are more likely than not to act in similar ways. We all eat the same, breathe the same, and die the same. Hehe.

Stories are often told with different mediums. Music, poetry, books, pictures, video games, comics, etc, all have the same soul—a character, a situation, and a subject matter. When we tell our stories through the medium we feel the most connected to, we can reach an audience that can relate, and thus, impact their lives in one way or another.

Stories help us relieve ourselves from the pressure and pain of our past, perhaps seeing with more clarity and understanding why we did certain things in a certain way at a point in our lives. My memoir, The Girl in The Mirror: How 2020 Became The Year of My Grand Shift, was one such. Penning down my experiences and what my expectations were, helped me identify who I was and who I wanted to be. Good storytelling helps to transform, transcend, and metamorphose the storyteller as well as the reader or listener.

We write stories to find meaning. Sometimes life comes at us so fast and we are wondering who we are, but good stories help to centre us. Grant Snider, an American writer, and cartoonist points out 9 things that make a great novelist. He starts with childhood trauma, a big one, eh? He then goes on to highlight a miserable job, a moment of self-discovery, a loyal pet, pathological ambition, an episode of debauchery, a neglected spouse, personal demons, and years of boring hard work as other catalysts. I couldn’t agree more, honestly. I really did begin to see the light when I began telling my stories.

Stories help to shine a light on perceptions—the bedrock of humanity’s decisions. Two people are faced with a similar circumstance and they choose to act differently. You begin to wonder, why this choice and not that? The healing potential of storytelling cannot be overemphasized.

We learn the context of worry, hate, anxiety, and the art of persuasion through stories. Someone once said fear is learned and hate is taught. We observe something that our mama does, or the stories our grandpa tells us about some taboo or some bad people and we internalize it. Storytelling helps to ensure that some behavior stays perpetuated, and in other cases, becomes resolved.

Stories, case in point the bible, are written for our examples. We can observe the good, the bad, and the ugly and see how and why certain characters made certain choices. I often advise not swallowing stories whole, but taking the time to sift through the pile, identifying what is logical, intuitive, and empowering, and then choosing what could transform us into better versions of ourselves.

Have you got a story in your gut to tell? Ready to find the release that comes through telling your personal stories? I’d like to help you write that story.

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